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I would get a restraining order for no contact.

She may not remember but, his record is proof for the law.

Your POA should give you the legal authority to do this, as in her right mind she wanted no contact with this person.
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hoolyk May 2022
Thank you. I am thinking about visiting an attorney to get this done. Or at least have them send him a letter, warning him to stop interfering, or this will happen. So, the only reason I would take this approach is she will go crazy if I "interfere" in her life and stop him from visiting. I had her license taken away, and she has been bashing me for a year to everyone. This caretaking thing is a thankless job!!!

I have a durable power of attorney. Which indicates I am supposed to do her wishes, (I believe???)
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hoolyk, just curious how your Aunt [Mother's sister?] knows what the grandson is saying? Is she there when the grandson visits? Or is this something your Mother is telling her?

I am wondering if the grandson is even saying such things, or if your Mother is starting to develop dementia, where one side effect is telling tall tales.

I would ask the caregivers if they see any signs of dementia. I know whenever I had visited my Dad at his home, he was very sharp. It was his caregivers that was telling me that my Dad's memory was slipping.
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hoolyk May 2022
My Mother talked to my Aunt every single morning as my Aunt calls her. So it is true. and another caretaker that visits listens in when he is there, and hears what he says.
Everyone sees signs of dementia. Her short term memory is gone, and she repeats the same thing over and over again. She can carry on a conversation, and can get up and shower, and cook her breakfast, etc. And play bridge, cause she has always done it.
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