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... my god, get the h*ll away from her I mean seriously what are you waiting around for.. Do you suffer martyrdom or what here. ... when a cruel (and beyond) person ages, that doesn't suddenly earn them a forgiving clemency right of honor by the family that they themselves dishonored/mistreated. Jesus, I' would've said see-ya like 4 decades ago. Seems you're hangin around for some reason...don't know why, and to be quite frank not sure any reason would be valid or rational enough to subject ones self to that. (And for the simple reason you are able to see the mistreatment and still you hang around is even more questioning.) 

Listen, Elder care is difficult enough as is, so to throw in decades of abuse offered at the hands of the elder, I'd say there's some physiological damage going on in this elder & care-giver scenario ... i.e. damage example; martyrdom; meaning, perhaps you just need to hear how brave etc strangers might think you are from time to time,  yet reality is you have no plans to change your situation. (Seems this forum has many of those types... so, nothing more to say than, good luck. 
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TIRED i post prior here, but yep you're 100% right, especially the last 2 sentences. as abuse is wrong on all levels,any age. I hope she is recording it all to have proof of what is being said . to protect herself."God bless her."and her parent too."Both i pray for.
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I would totally drop all dealings with her. It seems the rest of your family has been able to do it.
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