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Go find my recent post about MY MIL and see yourself in 20 years with the insanity I have had to deal with for 45 years--b/c my DH is a 'good guy' and never put me first--always his mom.

Oh, and I'd be HAPPY being called a cow. That's actually nice, compared to the stuff she's said to me.

If your BF will not put you first, leave. It is good that he loves his mom, it is NOT good that he doesn't seem to care much for YOUR heart.
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There are many posts about guys who are ‘keepers’, and it often seems to depend on them being helpful, non-assertive, and pleasant to be with. Unfortunately, many of them seem to be incapable of standing up to mother. Give him a clear choice - you or mother. If he won’t choose, get out. The compromise solutions are just another way to show that you don’t come first.
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