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She doesn't like it when we give her ideas or options.

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So if she doesn't like your ideas just say "I don't know" and move on.

Their minds are a continuous loop, she will move on to some other thing soon, just roll with it. There is no reasoning with a person who has dementia.

Forget about trying to resolve these type of issues, it is a waste of time.
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Perhaps ask her what she thinks – what are the options she is considering? It might help to deflect her thoughts, or give you different things to discuss.
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My mother asks the same thing, and answers the same way when we provide an answer. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Then, she asks again, in two minutes. 🤪

It’s the unanswerable question, for sure! 😜
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"I don't know."
"Anything you want."
"Brush your teeth."
Options probably confuse her. And you can keep silent. You don't always have to answer.
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Interesting that my mom, also with dementia, says basically the same thing of "I don't know what I should be doing". I just say something supportive and vague, like "there's really nothing you should be doing. Just relax and watch TV, I guess." Or I'll say "Hmm. Are you feeling a little confused right now? That's OK. It happens sometimes."

With her it's a roller coaster. Good moments and bad ones.
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